Monday, November 3, 2014

Halloween 2014

This year for Halloween Chris and I went and bought pumpkins and then went over to his moms house (since we live in an apartment we don't really have a place to put out pumpkins, and our parking lot got repaved Friday so there weren't any trick or treaters coming to the apartments anyways). We carved our pumpkins, ate Chinese food, and then set my pumpkin on fire! It was great! Even Daisy, Chris's mom's dog, enjoyed watching us carve pumpkins. She laid in my lap some while I carved. Mainly cause she wanted me to give her all my attention. hahaha she's super cute and very spoiled. lol
Chris carve General Grievous from Star Wars (cause we had a Star Wars carving kit lol)
I carved a fire breathing dragon (which I just figured out on my own)
Chirs's pumpkin

My pumpkin with just a candle in it

My pumpkin once we set the FIRE!


from the side

my favorite photo of it. I love the swirl of the flames




Friday, October 24, 2014

My 1st experience inside a POLICE CAR!!!!

So this morning I was leaving a doctors appointment heading to work when I cop pulls out behind me. I think nothing of it cause I have on my seat belt, my phone is in the passenger seat and I putting down the road in traffic going 35mph stuck behind a truck pulling a crappy looking boat. About a block later he turns on his lights. I think hmm. . . he didn't turn on his siren so I don't think he's trying to go around me, is he pulling me over? So I pull over into the drive way area of a parking lot that is under construction (not in the parking lot but also not really in the street either). He pulls up behind me. I park and roll down my window and wait.

He walks up to the car and asks if I mind stepping outside the vehicle. I said sure. At this point I have run through every possible law that you can break in a vehicle in my mind and I can't come up with anything I have done wrong. I've gotten speeding tickets before but that's it and I always deal with those immediately. Then it hits me, instantly! Last year we reported the registration sticker on my license plate stolen they must think something weird about that stolen sticker, but how can that be?

He asks me to face the car and says that he has to DETAIN me for a few minutes because my car has been reported stolen!!!!! I say ok and while he's placing me in HANDCUFFS I told him that we reported the registration sticker stolen last year but not the whole car. He was super nice the entire time! Never once treated me like a criminal. He even apologized several times during the whole situation saying he knows that I didn't steal the car, he could tell the moment he saw me I didn't steal the car. He asked me if I had my ID with me and I told him where he could find my ID, registration and insurance. I sat in the back of his police car while he got those things from my car. He came back to sit in his car and I told him the whole situation about the stolen registration sticker. By the way I was laughing the whole time, cause this was the most ridiculous thing that has ever happened to me. LOL. He was even laughing too when he learned that my dad is a lawyer and the police office that took my statement about the registration sticker was a friend of mine. Also that I worked in the elections office at the time of the indecent so the offices just wondered over to the office which was down the street from them to take my statement. I did leave out the part about the county sherriff is a close friend of my dad, I thought that might be too much (but it did cross my mind. Sitting there in the back of the police car imagining my dad and Mr. Reggie laughing about this). He even joked, "great now I'm gonna get sued" to which I replied, "no, my dad will think this is the funnest thing on earth!" I thanked him for being so nice. We both had a good laugh. He said "now you're gonna have an exciting story to tell". I said, "I know! I've never been in a cop car before or in handcuffs. This is a first for me". He laughed.

The dispatcher reported back that the report says "car stolen/decal stolen" and that she didn't know what that meant (cause really who cares about reporting a stolen decal if the whole car is stolen). So he told her that he was going to undetain me and let me sit in my own car cause he knows that I didn't steal my dads car. So he let me out of the backseat and took the handcuffs off and I got back in my car. I spent less than 10mins in the police car, hardly a scary experience. He stood outside the car chit chatting with me while the dispatcher tried to get in contact with the Lee County department to figure out the stolen car report. The police officer and I talked about his camaro he had growing up, an old pick up truck he had, my dad's Model-A, all sorts of stuff.

Finally he asked me if my dad would be at work by now and if they could reach him there. I said absolutely! So he calls my dad's office and one of the secretary's answers and tells him that he's out until Monday! OH CRAP!!! I remember he and my mom are on an antique car club weekend trip! So then he calls my dad's cell phone hoping to get him even though I know that's not going to happen cause dad NEVER answers his phone. Sure enough after 3 tries dad still doesn't answer. So I tell the police office I can call my mom and tell her that a police office is calling dad and to answer the phone. He said that if she answers she can just hand the phone over to my dad and that would be fine. So I call her. The phone rings, rings, rings, SHE PICKED UP! "Hey, what's going on? How are you doing?" (in a cheerful motherly way) to which I responded, "I'm standing here with a cop, give dad the phone" (in a why don't you people ever answer your phone kind of way). She hands my dad the phone, I hand my phone to the police officer. He tells my dad who he is and simply asks, "Has your chevy cavalier been stolen?" To which my dad obviously replied, "No. The registration tag was stolen last year that we had to file a report for though" The police officer laughs saying he knows but had to confirm with the owner of the car and breifly explains the situation and that he's letting me go and that their department is in contact with Lee County's department to get the report fixed.

The police officer hands me back the phone and tells me he's letting me go and is sorry that all this has happened and to have a nice day. We laughed some. And he left. I then sat on the phone with my mom telling her the whole story. She was cracking up laughing with my dad and aunt, who was with them, about it. I was laughing too cause the whole situation was surreal. To get detained! Sit in the back of a cop car, handcuffed with the police officer being incredibly nice and joking back and forth with one another. All over a mistake on a police report. He truly was the nicest police officer I've ever met at least the nicest one that has ever pulled me over. LOL.

And that is my story about my 1st and hopefully only experience inside a police car.

Friday, September 19, 2014

Waiting in Line: What is wrong with people?



This is happening right now around the corner from where I work. 


I just don't understand why people do this sort of thing. It's bizarre and a waste of time in my opinion. Just absolutely ridiculous. In the article one man said, "Staying energized and staying hydrated is very important when you're dealing with this kind of situation," he said. "The most important thing is to make sure you have power. There's usually not outlets out here so I got my generator to keep everything charged up through the night." WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!?!?!

Friday, September 5, 2014

Excellent Reporting

 
Do reporters even bother trying to do research, discover facts, use correct spelling and grammer?
 
Seriously!?!?!

Sunday, June 8, 2014

1st Anniversary



May 30th - June 2nd we celebrated our first anniversary. We went to Myrtle Beach which is where we met. We had an amazing time. We layed out on the beach, went to Broadway at the Beach which is where we met at the club there. We took pictures in front of it and reminisced about that night. It was wonderful! We ate some delicious food, and just relaxed. It was the best weekend! 







Friday, May 16, 2014

Mothers Day

This mothers day was spent here in Charleston. I couldn't make it home to be with my mom on mothers day this year but I spent mothers day with Chris and his mom. We went to eat at the Francis Marion Hotel downtown. It was very nice. It's an old historic hotel of course like everything downtown lol. The food was great.
 
at the Francis Marion Hotel

Afterwards we went on a tour of the historic Edmondston-Alston House which is on the Battery downtown. It was a lovely old house with tons of history. Like the owner Mr. Alston watching the Civil War begin at Fort Sumpter from the porch of his house. It was a very nice day.

They made us sit on the Joggling Bench twice. 
While waiting for our tour to start we sat outside and sat on the Joggling Bench. The tour guide for the group in front of us made Chris and I demonstrate the bench for their group. It's a super long bench that rocks side to side and bounces. Then during our tour, our guide (an adorable little old man), made us demonstrate it to our group. It was pretty silly and Chirs had to do the bouncing cause my feet didn't touch the ground. So I just sat there holding on the the bench. lol.  


I missed being with my mom on mothers day but
I did send her a giftcard and the most awesome card ever!

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Biggest Fan


I made this video of Gmommy for her 80th birthday. It's long but it's worth the watch. I love her so much and she has been such a blessing in my life. I have been truly blessed to call her Gmommy.

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Exciting happenings

So yesterday was a very hectic day for me but also very exciting. For starters I signed a new contract with the College of Charleston for a year. I also got a raise! WHOO HOO! It did take an hour and 1/2 to fill out all the paper work but it got done. It feels good to know I've got a job for the next year. And that they think highly enough of me to give me a raise.



Yesterday evening I shot the dress rehersal for the Footlight Players theatre. It was different than shooting at Theater Albany but I know every where I go is going to be different than the last. It felt great being back in a theatre shooting a play. I really enjoy it. Maybe I can make some sort of niche doing that. I did in Albany so why not here. Hopefully it'll turn into more business. Even if it doesn't at least I can put it on my resume and portfolio.

Thursday, March 27, 2014

Busy Weekend

So on the 14th Chris and I had dinner with his mom and Tom at Middleton Place, a plantation near by, for his mom's birthday. It's beautiful out there. We got there a little before our reservation so we got to walk around before it got dark.



I took several pictures of us, which Chris was happy with at first but then he got tired of it lol.


Also Chris's friend Jonathan and Danny came to town to visit for the weekend. They got in late Friday night. Saturday we drove down to the beach where Jonathan proposed to Danny. It was so nice out. We went further down the beach than we normally do to get away from all the people. He drew a big heart in the sand with "marry me?" writen inside the heart. It was very sweet. Chris video'd it on Jonathans phone and I took pictures.









That night we went out to eat at Hymans, which is this very delisious restarunt. Sunday Chris had a soccor game. It rained the entire time but they kept on playing. I sat in the car and watched. Jonathan and Danny left Sunday afternoon. It was a great weekend.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Medication

Medication is such a controversial issue. Some parents over medicate their kids, giving them every vaccine known to man, Tylenol, vitamins, any time their even remotely sick their given something, antibacterial disinfectant every time the touch something. Then you've got the parents who believe in not medicating their kids hardly at all. No vaccines, no doctors unless horribly sick. And I'm not just picking on parents here. They're just really easy to generalize. The elderly often over medicate now too. Aspirin a day, vitamins, minerals, fish oil pills, lipitor, blood pressure medicine, creams, liquids, etc. It's ridiculous.

Most people want to blame the doctors. We're suppose to trust them. They're suppose to be looking out for us and what is best for us. So when people are taking so much stuff for so many things they blame the doctor for prescribing it or telling them they should be taking it. But the fact is, it's the individual who is responsible for the medication they take. You are the one who ultimately decides what you should take and what you shouldn't. It is up to YOU! Doctors are giving you advice. Their professional opinion. Read that again "professional OPINION" You don't have to do what they say. Look into medicine before you take it. I do believe that a lot of doctors do truly care about your health and what to do what is right for you but there are also a lot who aren't. You have to be an advocate for yourself. Find out what medication is right for you and what isn't. Also don't always take what a doctor or pharmacist says about the duration of that medication. You should look into the side effects for yourself, because often time the side effects are worse than the condition or they can cause the same symptoms as the condition in which case do you really want to take it.

My experience: My stomach was hurting a lot, all the time, when I was hungry, when I ate, after I ate. Just all the time. Then started the heartburn. Horrible heartburn practically all day. Worse at night. Then came the reflux. I won't even get into that cause people think it's gross when you tell them you couldn't swallow a pill because your esophagus pushed it back up. Yea it was bad. Well went to the doctor. They gave me some medicine (Prevacid) to relieve me of it temporarily until I had an endoscopy done. They thought I had a stomach ulcer (at the age of 20). Well the medicine actually started working pretty well. I had the endoscopy done and guess what no ulcer. Surprise surprise. They determined that I had GERD (acid reflux disease). They told me to keep taking the medicine they prescribed me until I took a 24hr PH test. I asked what it was and what it would tell us. They explained the test which I quickly told them I wasn't doing lol. My mom asked them if I took the test what would it do for me. They said it would just tell them more accurately how bad my reflux is so they can adjust the medicine. So here's what I heard, even though the medicine is working great now and I feel almost completely better we want you to take this awful test so that we can tell you to continue to take that medicine. Obviously I didn't do it lol. I took the medicine for several months and was doing great. I had changed my diet and how I ate which helped a lot. But after a while I started feeling sick again. I looked up information on the medicine and found that if you take it for an extended period of time it causes an upset stomach. So essentially the medicine that I'm suppose to take for my chronic problem I'm not suppose to take for more than a couple of weeks. Well that's just great. Now I hardly ever take it. I've got it relatively under control with eating habits and the occasional tums. But sometimes it just get too much and I start taking the medicine again. Only for a few weeks though to get things back in balance.

That's what medication is about. Balance. Sometimes your body does things it isn't suppose to. Sometimes it doesn't work right. If you can sort it out in a more natural way great but sometimes you have to take some medicine. Just know what your taking. Know the side effects and what can happen if you take to much or take it for a long time. Be an informed consumer and an advocate for your own health. Don't take someone else word for something no matter who they are.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

ugh

So for those of you who remember my post about all the trouble I was having with my car, here is the ending. My check engine light had been on also during all that crap but I didn't get it look at then. Saturday Chris and I finally took my car to the chevorlett dealership to get checked out cause they were the cheapest place. It's $45 just to look at it and tell me the problem. However if I choose to get it fixed then the $45 fee is waved. So I'm taking it as that $45 is just a small payment in the LARGE payment that I will be paying to fix my car. Because it will have to be fixed. I'm going to Atlanta in a few weeks for my moms birthday and can't drive a broken car that far. So we get there and the guy imediately says that there was a recall on something on my car and it might be the problem. So I'm hoping and praying all day that it's gonna be something simple. Of course I'm not that lucky. I don't hear back from any one and finally call between 3:30-4:00. He says that he was just about to call me. Of course you were. He procedes to tell me that my catalac converter is crap and I need a new one. I will also need the gasket that it goes in. Also my drive belt is dry rotted and I need a new one. Then he tells me the price. I wanted to reach through the phone and strangle him. A GM model coverter plus the other parts would come out to be more than $2000. A different shop had a converter not GM model for MUCH less. The total would come out to be $984 before taxes of course. No one ever tells what something is going to cost with taxes they always wait till you're there to hit you with it. So using common sense I told the guy I wanted the cheaper one. He understood and then proceeded to try and get me to get my car a tune up as well. I told him nope all I want done is those 3 things replaced. Just the $984 price! I will look into getting a tune up some other time. He tells me that they have to order the parts but they'll be there monday and I should be able to pick up my car monday.

So of course I am stressing about how much money I'm about to spend. I've got it but it is going to kill me handing it over. I was just starting to feel like I was getting ahead and able to start saving some again since the move. But NOPE stupid car had to crap out on me. It is 12 years old and this model isn't really made to last super long so everyone has been really impressed with how long it has lasted. Even knowing that my car is old and needing some major repairs now it still hurts my pockets. So we picked up my car monday evening. I paid an arm and a leg but it's over. I felt much better when I got home. The stress and worry of it were gone cause now it was over and I don't have to think about it. Just work on building back up my bank account lol.

Monday, February 17, 2014

The Sun

So many people love talking about things that they know nothing about. One of those subjects is tanning. You hear people go on and on about how bad it is for you but if you ask those people where they got their information they'll say something like, doctors or scientist. To which you should reply what doctors or what scientist. Ask for the names and what they said exactly. 99.9999% of the time people can't do it. I've yet to meet someone who has done any research on the subject them self. People hear others in the media talk about it being bad for you and they just run with it. It is so obnoxious. Incompetence does not equal innocence. It just makes you annoying. If you have not done the research yourself and can have a competent conversation about the subject then don't say anything about it. Also some people might say that their doctor told them so. Well if your doctor says that you shouldn't drink milk because you're lactose intolerant that doesn't mean that everyone else is too. That is advice that your doctor gave to you and you alone. Do not assume that everyone's body works the same as yours. When it comes to tanning the chatter normally comes from people who have very pale sensitive skin. Of course they don't need to be tanning but everyone isn't like that. There are plenty of people who tanning is actually good for them, healthy for them. There are several disorders where doctors actually tell the patient that tanning can help there disorder. There is even a guy who has a rare skin disease that tanning helps out extremely (Teen Tans to Treat Rare Disease). Psoriasis is one of those disorders. UV rays from the sun help in the reproduction of skin cells which greatly improve a person's psoriasis. I know because I have it and love what tanning does for it. Just spending 10mins a day for 3 days a week can help so much that I wont have to use medicine that week. A trip to the beach can clear it up for a couple of weeks. The sun gives so much to our bodies not just vitamin D. Not I'm not saying we shouldn't wear sunscreen. Everyone should definitely wear sunscreen. Is the sun good for people? Yes but just like water too much of a good thing can be bad. There's sun poisoning which can be very dangerous. It's all about moderation. People go overboard with everything now days, dieting, exercising, etc. Things that are good in moderation but when over done become extremely dangerous to your health. Use sunscreen but don't be afraid to get some sun. I hate when people say their taking vitamin D supplements and they aren't past their 60's. How about you go outside for about an hour!? Get some vitamin D the natural way. The way God intended. He created the sun a specific way and it works with our body in specific ways. Why are we trying to change that because some one some where says that getting some sun will give you cancer. Seriously people everything now days will give you cancer, aerosols, chemicals in our food, pollution from our cars, cleaning products, chemicals in our clothes and furniture, smokers, etc. You can't get away from it. Also cancer isn't something that you contract. It is created by your own body. Cells in your body freak out and do stuff that they're not suppose to. It is your body that's out of wack that causes cancer. It is all about what is right for your body. And only you know your body. No one else does and you don't know what is right with someone else's. There are people who are lactose intolerant, people who can't eat peanuts, and people who can't be out in the sun, but that doesn't mean that is how everyone's body works. All I'm saying is that people should condemn or condone something that they don't know about. If it isn't right for you then don't do it but that doesn't mean you can tell other people what is right for them. It makes people sound arrogant because of the ignorance. 

Sunday, February 9, 2014

"Deathtrap"

Last night Chris and I went to The Footlight Players theatre in downtown Charleston. We went with his mom and Tom (her bf). They have season tickets and so now we're gonna start going to ones that sound good also. We went out to eat and then to the theatre. It was a good play and the players did a really great job. We had a nice time. It was good to get out and do something in the community. After taking pictures for Theatre Albany has made me very interested in theatre and community. I love helping out and showing my support for the community and the arts. Maybe I'll  see if they would like a photographer :)


Chris, me, Betsy (his mom)


Chris and I at the theatre